The Queen archetype is a powerful and regal archetype that represents a woman’s ability to lead, rule, and take control of her life. When we embody our Queen archetype, we tap into our inner strength and wisdom, allowing us to live a life of purpose and fulfillment.
If you’re a woman who is either in or desiring a beautiful loving relationship with a healthy masculine partner, or if you’re a business owner, a coach, or a content creator, you need to know about the Queen archetype and how to embody this energy in your daily life. Embodying this energy will change how you show up, how you interact with others and what you attract to your life.
What Is An Archetype?
An archetype is a universal symbol representing specific behavior patterns, emotions, and thoughts, Carl Jung pioneered the use of archetypes in psychology. Archetypes are the building blocks of our personalities and are found in literature, art, music, mythology, and religion across all cultures. They are present in our own lives as well.
There are many feminine archetypes (such as Maiden, Mother, Wild Woman, Wise Woman and so on) and also masculine archetypes (such a King, Warrior, Magician and Lover).
What Is The Queen Archetype?
Firstly, let’s dive into what the Queen archetype represents.
The Queen archetype is one that is often misunderstood – often represented as villains in Disney movies or passive, weak figures in comparison to a King. The Queen archetype embodies grace, power, and wisdom, and she commands respect from those around her. The Queen archetype is not limited to actual monarchs, but it can also represent any woman who is confident in herself and takes control of her life. There’s more to this archetype than meets the eye so let’s more deeply explore what the Queen archetype is and how to embody it in our daily lives.
The Queen Archetype
The Queen is an archetype that symbolizes a woman who has gained control of her own life, has a voice and uses it to make herself heard. She is unafraid to speak up for herself, knowing that she deserves what she wants and needs. She is nurturing, patient and fierce when it comes to protecting her loved ones.
The Queen archetype can be found throughout history in many different cultures across the globe.
The Queen can be both nurturing and protective, making her an excellent role model. She inspires others through her passion, strength of character, and good judgment; as such, followers will stick around longer than they would under another type of leadership style.
The Queen is an archetype of leadership, but not domination, she is a nurturer but doesn’t let others take advantage of her, she teaches others, but does not try to control them, and she listens carefully to others’ opinions. The Queen archetype can teach you about being more in touch with your feminine power:
- She knows how to speak up for herself without being aggressive or rude.
- She knows how to set boundaries with others without being defensive.
- She has an innate sense of intuition that helps her navigate situations effectively.
It’s important to note that with every archetype, there is a healthy side and a shadow side. In fairy tales, and even in our own lives, shadow Queens are mean, wicked, and evil. Note that these are not real Queens. ****The Queen has REMEMBERED WHO SHE IS and has come home to her body. Let’s explore the differences between a shadow Queen and a healthy Queen.
Shadow Queen
- Unloving
- Controlling
- Cold
- Lonely
- Vengeful
- Angry
- Judgemental
Healthy Queen
- Leader
- Powerful
- Sovereign
- Aligned with herself and life
- Brave
- Inspires others
- Leads with her heart
- Say what they mean
- Speaks her truth
- Takes full personal responsibility
Here are five tips for embodying your Queen archetype:
Embrace your power
The first step to embodying your Queen archetype is to embrace your power. Know that you have the ability to take control of your life and create the reality you want. This can be as simple as setting boundaries with others, making decisions that align with your values, or speaking up for what you believe in. Get curious about what makes you feel powerful and what makes you feel powerless (a great journal prompt) and do more of the things that make you feel powerful.
Cultivate self-awareness
To embody your Queen archetype, it’s important to cultivate self-awareness. Take time to reflect on your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Notice what patterns you fall into and be willing to make changes when necessary. A great way to do this is through journaling or working with a coach to support you. Question everything, become curious about why you think, act and behave in certain ways and soon you’ll notice deeper levels of self-awareness.
Set high standards
The Queen archetype sets high standards for herself and those around her. This means having a clear vision for what you want to achieve and how you want to feel, and being committed to excellence in everything you do. It also means holding yourself and others accountable for their actions.
Practice Self-Care
The Queen archetype knows the importance of self-care. Take time to prioritize your physical, emotional, mental and energetic well-being. It starts with the basics of getting enough sleep, moving your body, and nourishing yourself with nutritious foods. Take it a level deeper by supporting yourself on an emotional level by practicing breathwork and regulating your nervous system.
Lead with Compassion
Finally, the Queen archetype leads with compassion. She understands that true leadership is not about control or domination, but rather about empowering others to reach their full potential. This means being kind, empathetic, and understanding toward others, while still maintaining your own boundaries and standards. A great way to start leading with compassion is to embody love as you lead and make decisions. Often our ego tries to take over, and that’s when those shadow elements show up, so instead ask yourself “how would love and compassion show up at this moment?” and then take that action.
In conclusion, the Queen archetype is a powerful and regal archetype that represents a woman’s ability to lead, rule, and take control of her life. By embracing your power, cultivating self-awareness, setting high standards, practicing self-care, and leading with compassion, you can embody your Queen archetype and live a life of purpose and fulfillment. This archetype isn’t reserved for those born into royalty; we all have the power within ourselves to be a Queen! So go ahead, channel your inner Queen as you lead yourself in your life and watch how life starts to shift as you show up in this beautiful and powerful energy. If you desire some epic practices to support you in this, you’ll love my Like a Queen program.